Affairs of the broken heart

Is it possible to hack into a cell phone and read new or deleted txt messages?

Its not like Im cheating on him. I am thinking about leaving him with my kids and have deleted several text messages that I talk about him and our problems and what I may be planning….. I just want to know is it possible? He has a friend at work who he says can hack into any cell phone and any myspace or facebook and that he can do it from any phone it doesnt matter how old the cell is. Not looking for marriage advice so please just answer the question asked. Thankyou.

It’s not possible to read deleted text messages, no. Those are gone from the phone. As far as new messages? Yes. If they’re on the phone, they can be read.

However, I’m not so sure how able this “friend” is to hack your phone from “any phone.” Even if he had your mobile number, he would have to establish a data connection to your phone. The only way he’d be able to do so is through Bluetooth or wi-fi (for which you’d have to be within range), or–the more unlikely, far-fetched option–by calling you. The latter is, like I said, unlikely to work. Not every phone would even be remotely capable of pulling off anything like that.

The other thing he can try is to get to your mobile phone provider, but that would be substantially harder and more dangerous as he will most likely get caught before doing any damage.

Gaining unauthorized access to your phone would also be illegal for him to do. So if it happened, know that you can press charges if you have sufficient proof.

Just don’t answer any unknown numbers or accept any Bluetooth pairing requests you’re not familiar with and you’ll be okay. See if you can talk to your phone provider about changing your number, too. I’d even look into signing up with a different provider for a new phone and number.

I wouldn’t worry about it, though. It’s likely this friend of his is just full of crap and trying to sound cool.

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